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Happy Thanksgiving from Southern Bride and Groom Wedding Magazine

In the world of weddings, there is a lot to be thankful for…

We’re thankful for the dedicated and professional wedding vendors with whom we have the pleasure of working. We’re thankful for the industry associations and community events that showcase wedding services in fun and creative ways. We’re thankful to be close to the finish line for the gorgeous 2016 issue of Southern Bride & Groom (keep an eye out next month!). We’re thankful for the team here at SB&G who work tirelessly to put together a product that is as informative as it is inspiring, and, of course, we’re thankful for all of you – the readers – brides-to-be and family who pick up our magazine, read our blog, follow us on social media and give us a reason to put our best foot forward year after year!
Full Frame Theatre at American Tobacco Campus DurhamWe recently did a fall team photo shoot with Katherine Miles Jones Photography outside the Full Frame Theater at American Tobacco Campus. This urban setting in downtown Durham is the perfect place for engagement or wedding photos. It is located just outside the popular wedding venue, Bay 7. You can rent out the theater’s marquee sign and have it customized with your name or a wedding message! For our shoot, we opted to have it labeled with “Team SB&G.”

SB&G is a family business headed up by Founder, Donna Parks, and her daughter, Jenna Parks Olender. This year, they welcomed a new generation into their family. Cecelia Lee Olender was born in August- Jenna’s first child with husband, Shawn – and Donna’s first grandchild. Baby Cece has already spent a good deal of time training to be the next member of Team SB&G, as she was born right in time for our production season and has spent many-a-day at SB&G headquarters. Donna and Jenna are grateful for this precious new addition to the family, and thankful to Team SB&G for embracing her into our office life!
Southern Bride and Groom babyTo get to know more about the team behind Southern Bride & Groom, visit our “About Us” page.

From all of us here, we wish you and yours a very Happy Thanksgiving!
Southern Bride and Groom magazine photoshoot at American TobaccoThank you to Makeup for Your Day for styling our hair & makeup, and to Katherine Miles Jones Photography for the beautiful photos!

Creative Wedding Cakes by One Belle Bakery in Wilmington, NC

Some folks call the cake the centerpiece of their reception, which is why we reserve a special spotlight in our magazine each year to show off these edible masterpieces! Southern Bride & Groom’s 2015 cake shoot took place at American Tobacco Campus (ATC), a hub of happening in the heart of downtown Durham.
Sunflower cake by Wilmington bakeryToday, we’re showing off two creative wedding cakes by One Belle Bakery in Wilmington, NC. The first is a cheery standout daisy cake that starts off with a bottom tier of artsy “chalk” drawings, followed by hand-painted diamonds in complementary blue, topped off with bright yellow sugar-crafted daisies! This old-school look would pair perfectly with a blue and yellow sunflower theme, such as that in our floral display by Flowers by Gary.

The setting for this cake shoot, captured by Brian Mullins Photography, is a favorite lunch spot on central American Tobacco Campus and reveals one of the many preserved painted advertisements from its factory days.Chevron wedding cakeThe next cake, pictured above was featured in the 2014 edition of Southern Bride & Groom Magazine and also shows off the fun, playful side of One Belle Bakery. The adorable coral chevron pattern would look right at home for a beach wedding – complete with a coral starfish from Southern Season and coral pillows in the background from ThemeWorks!

CAKES One Belle Bakery | PHOTOGRAPHER Brian Mullins Photography | VENUE (first cake) Outdoor Classroom at American Tobacco Campus; (second cake) ThemeWorks | LINEN (first cake) American Party Rentals | FlOWERS (first cake) The English Garden

Durham Bulls Themed Wedding Ideas from GiGi’s Cupcakes

Some folks call the cake the centerpiece of their reception, which is why we reserve a special spotlight in our magazine each year to show off these edible masterpieces! Southern Bride & Groom’s 2015 cake shoot took place at American Tobacco Campus (ATC), a hub of happening in the heart of downtown Durham.Raleigh bakery for wedding cake and cupcakesAt GiGi’s Cupcakes, you can have your cake and cupcakes too! In the top left, lavender and lace adds extra sweetness to a three-tiered cake topping above an assortment of delicious cupcakes. The Diamond View Skybox, where this shot was expertly taken by Brian Mullins Photography, provides a bird’s-eye view of the Durham Bulls Athletic Park and can be rented out for a one-of-a-kind party in any season.

If you want to show off your love for the home team, GiGi’s can make custom treats that will have everyone talking…including the mascot! In the Capital Broadcasting Suite at ATC, GiGi’s Cupcakes scores big with Wool E. Bull, by creating Durham Bulls themed wedding cupcakes. Whether its an engagement party, rehearsal dinner, bachelor party, or girls’ night, this rentable private suite, complete with a table shuffleboard, classic pool table, hot dog roaster, popcorn machine and deck of outdoor seats above the baseball diamond, is sure to be a home run with all your guests.

Sports themed weddings with mascots

CUPCAKES & CAKE GiGi’s Cupcakes | VENUE Capital Broadcasting Suite and Diamond View Skybox at the Durham Bulls Ballpark | LINEN American Party Rentals | PHOTOGRAPHER Brian Mullins Photography

Wedding Pros Rooftop Event at The Durham Hotel

Last week, Southern Bride & Groom hosted a networking event for our family of wedding pros on the rooftop of The Durham Hotel – the newest boutique hotel in downtown Durham! This mid-century modern hotel is perfect for parties and wedding guests seeking an upscale experience in the heart of downtown.The Durham HotelThe SB&G family enjoyed an afternoon that was both practical and fun – beginning with an educational talk about branding and marketing and ending with a laid-back networking session on the rooftop patio of The Durham Hotel. The rooftop bar and lounge will be open to the public soon – likely this week, and is currently accepting bookings for semi-private rooftop events. Southern Bride and GroomTo start off the evening, local branding expert Annie Franceschi, Creative Director of Greatest Story Creative, gave an inspiring talk about storytelling; advice on branding, and offered creative tips about how to use a couple’s story to make your wedding services more personal and unique. After decades of studying filmmaking and years working for Disney in LA, Annie moved back to her native North Carolina in 2013, where she founded Greatest Story to help real people better tell their stories. Based in Durham, Annie works with everyone from brides, to ad agencies, to entrepreneurs all over the country. Because story touches every aspect of our lives, Annie does story-centric custom creative, consulting work, and speaking engagements for businesses, weddings, special events, and personal projects. This special presentation was perfect for the SB&G Family of amazingly talented wedding professionals, who each has a fabulous story to share! Annie FranceschiAfter the presentation, the crowd headed up to the rooftop bar to mix and mingle while enjoying gorgeous sweeping views of downtown Durham. Here, the SB&G family had a chance to sample some delicious bites like oysters, shrimp cocktail, and cheese and meats, from The Durham Hotel’s head chef, James Beard Award-Winning Andrea Reusing.

Rooftop at The Durham HotelRooftop bar at the Durham HotelCheese plate
Events at The Durham HotelSouthern Bride and Groom MagazineView of downtown DurhamWe were lucky to have a sunny, warm day to take it all in! The rooftop, which also houses the fabulous penthouse suite, complete with it’s own private patio, is currently open for special events but will soon be open to the public as well.

Riley MacLean Photography joined us for the evening in the dual role as guest and photographer. He captured fantastic shots that showcase the stylish character of the hotel and rooftop and the fun evening we had.
Durham Hotel BarChef Andrea ReusingDowntown DurhamDurham restaurantsDurham NC hotelsModern hotel in DurhamNew hotel in DurhamA special shout-out goes to a few other SB&G vendors who helped make this an evening to remember!

Thanks to American Party Rentals for always having our back when we need last-minute rentals!

TapSnap was on the roof with their digital photo booth, capturing magnificent shots of the view and adding fun and fanciful special effects to some of the photos. TapSnap provides creative entertainment at weddings with digital props and green screen capabilities.Photobooth at Durham eventPhoto booth rentalTapSnap RaleighLoYo on the Go, a local frozen yogurt food truck that specializes in private events, such as weddings, was stationed outside, offering guests a cool treat on the way out – perfect for this hot summer night!LoYo on the Go food truckLocal Yogurt North CarolinaFrozen yogurt Raleigh DurhamWe had a blast catching up with everyone at the event and can’t wait for next time! And to anyone looking for a special Durham NC venue for a wedding related event like a post-rehearsal dinner get together, a small reception, or a shower, consider a rooftop event at The Durham Hotel!

Classic and Fun Wedding Photography by Southern Love Studios

Southern Bride & Groom works with some of the best wedding photographers in the Raleigh-Durham area and all across North Carolina. We’re thrilled to feature a North Carolina wedding photographer spotlight series so that you can get to know each of them a little better! Today, we’re sharing classic and fun wedding photography by Southern Love Studios.

2015 marks Southern Love Studios 10th year as a full-time wedding photographer! From backyard weddings to celebrity weddings, Southern Love Studios has captured beautiful memories for couples from the west coast to the east coast; they now residing in Raleigh, NC.

While not having a formal education in the craft, Brandon was lucky to have an amazing mentor, Michael Brannigan who took him under his wing and whom he shadowed for many years. Brannigan told him, “I can’t teach passion, but I can teach you how to use the camera”…and that he did.

Exciting changes are now happening with Southern Love – they recently opened a studio in Wake Forest and welcomed Beth Jarvah to the team as a lead shooter!

Learn more about Southern Love Studios’ style and wedding experience in the Q&A below.Pink and white wedding colorsWhere do you draw your artistic inspiration?
When I look through a magazine, I’m not looking at the clothes or the model, I’m looking at how that picture was photographed: what lens did they use, what lighting techniques did they use, so for me, a lot of inspiration and ideas come from these high end magazines.

How would you describe your style?
I’m classic, traditional first, then fun second. A classic and fun picture will never go out of style!Raleigh Engagement PhotographyWhat sets you apart from other photographers?
My job as a wedding photographer is to get what my clients want, but what makes me different as a “professional” wedding photographer is knowing what my clients will want and need 30 years from now.

Being a part of over 350 weddings, I feel I have a great understanding of them. This comes into play when a bride is 30 minutes late and I have to make up that time somewhere else. That doesn’t fall on anyone else’s shoulders other than the photographer or the coordinators and it’s our job to keep calm and get what is needed. This is where that experience comes in the play.

Taking pretty pictures is only 30% of the job; I would say 70% is how you get along and collaborate with clients. I show up to the bridal suite and give my bride a hug as opposed to saying, “Hi, nice to meet you.”Duke Chapel and Merrimon Wynne House WeddingWhat is your favorite moment to shoot at a wedding?
The favorite thing for me at a wedding is not a specific moment for me to photograph…it’s when I tell the couple to “take two minutes and take in all of this.” The look on their face as they look out and do that is so special.Southern wedding photographyPhotos by Southern Love Studios

Hand-Painted Watercolor Wedding Cake from Edible Art Bakery in Raleigh

Some folks call the cake the centerpiece of their reception, which is why we reserve a special spotlight in our magazine each year to show off these edible masterpieces! Southern Bride & Groom’s 2015 cake shoot took place at American Tobacco Campus (ATC), a hub of happening in the heart of downtown Durham.Raleigh Wedding Cake BakeryEdible Art Bakery captured our hearts with its ornate lock and key cake combined with lovely stencil and ruffled artwork (pictured in the in the photo top left). Brides may choose one layer of spice and Kahlua pecan to match the cake’s golden details from Edible Art’s extensive menu of fresh, scratch-made cake flavors.Pink and white wedding cakeThe second cake is a matching hand-painted watercolor wedding cake with gorgeous gold details. The frilly pink wash mixed with the glitter of a Moroccan interlocking pattern is an eclectic and joyous color combination, finished with a gold-brushed sugar flower topper. The real roses placed in the center are from The English Garden, and perfectly compliment the pink and blush color tones of the two cakes.Gold flower cake topperBrian Mullins Photography captured these decadent shots in the boiler room of American Tobacco’s power plant, of all places! The contrast of the concrete industrial backdrop and these soft and feminine cakes makes for a stunning display. The area is actually one of the most popular cocktail and rehearsal party venues at ATC. The building also houses the Full Frame Theater and the Gallery, each available for private events.

CAKES Edible Art Bakery | VENUE The Boiler Room at American Tobacco Campus | FLOWERS The English Garden | LINENS American Party Rentals | Photographer Brian Mullins Photography

Most Important Questions to Ask Before Hiring a Wedding Planner

Hiring a wedding planner is a big decision. He or she will play a vital role in bringing to life the day you have been dreaming about for years! With that in mind, it’s important you feel comfortable and confident with your planner. To help you get started in the decision process, a few of our recommended wedding planners have offered some helpful suggestions.Raleigh WeddingPhoto: Jagg Photography

“Look through the wedding planners portfolio not only to get a sense of the quantity of weddings they do, but also the quality of weddings,” recommends Amanda Scott, owner of A Swanky Affair. “Most importantly, hire a planner you trust and feel you can easily communicate with. You will have a close working relationship with them for months and you want to make sure that you can work well together. Take some time to research their reviews online.”

Before asking anything related to the wedding planning process or the planner his/herself, A Southern Soiree suggests asking if they offer a free initial consultation. “While this may be more time-consuming, we think it’s important to sit down and see how well your personalities mesh. Having trust and compatibility is essential to creating a successful partnership.

A Southern Soiree and Sally Oakley, owner of Sally Oakley Weddings & Events, came up with a list of essential questions that every bride should ask…
The Grand Marquise Ballroom             Photo: Neil Boyd Photography

12 Questions to Ask Before Hiring a Wedding Planner

1. How long have you been in the industry?

2. How many weddings of my size and budget have you planned? How many overall weddings have you planned?

3. What makes you the most passionate about your job?

4. What role will I play in the planning process?

5. How many weddings do you handle each month? How many weddings do you have for the weekend/day of my wedding?

6. Do you have any scheduled vacation time, or work absence already scheduled during my planning period?

7. How many employees do you have? And who will be on-site during my big day?

8. How would you handle a dicey situation? (Such as the wrong color linens?)

9. When are you available to meet or discuss planning details? (Weekdays, nights, weekends, schedule restrictions?)

10. Do you work only with preferred vendors? Does you company have preferred vendor discount connections?

11. Why should I hire you as opposed to other planners or planning alternatives?

12. May I call some of your client and vendor references?

“Remember, your wedding planner should be asking YOU a lot of questions when you first meet,” says Chelsey Morrison, owner of Gather Together. “It’s important that they understand the aesthetic and environment you want to create for your wedding or that they can help you pinpoint these things if you haven’t already.”North Carolina Wedding PlannersPhoto: Azul Photography

Brides & Grooms Camp Out for Chance at a Duke Chapel Wedding

Dedication and commitment are fundamental elements of any good marriage. Couples who desire a Duke Chapel wedding in Durham, NC must test these very principles long before getting married as they camp out in tents for days in hopes of holding their ceremony at the historic Duke Chapel.

Duke is no stranger to this sort of fanaticism, after all, this is the school where many students choose to camp out for days, even weeks, at a time to land tickets to the Blue Devils’ basketball games. While there is a different end goal in mind during the Chapel camp-outs, the reasons for coming are the same— these are die-hard fans, not of basketball per se, but of weddings at Duke Chapel. They can’t imagine getting married anywhere else.

Everyone at the camp-out has a different story, background, and reason for being there — ranging from local couples who have always dreamt of having a Duke Chapel wedding, to Duke alum who traveled from out of state, to a father who was filling in for his daughter, to a Duke student who was getting paid $100 a day to hold someone’s spot.

Southern Bride & Groom stopped by the camp on the final evening before sign-ups to meet these eager couples and to learn more about the process and their stories. Talented Durham wedding photographer Riley MacLean took some great shots of this fun and dynamic group, who were all smiles…even through the rain!Duke Chapel weddingsGoing to the Chapel

Of course, not just anyone can get married at this highly sought-after location. In order to schedule a wedding, blessing ceremony, or reaffirmation of wedding vows, the bride, the groom, or one of their parents or grandparents must be a current full-time Duke student, graduate, or a current full-time Duke employee. In 2013, the Chapel also extended wedding eligibility to current members of the Board of Trustees and to faculty and staff emeriti with 15 or more years’ continuous service to the University, and to their children and grandchildren.

On the first of every month, the Chapel accepts wedding reservations for that month the following year. Those who want to be married in July 2016, for instance, must be there to register on July 1, 2015.

Sara Clark is the event and wedding coordinator at Duke University Chapel. Although tenting is not organized by the Chapel itself, for couples with a very specific date in mind, she recommends camping out as the best way to secure a spot. According to one of the campers, three couples showed up Wednesday morning (the day of sign-ups), some with very specific dates and times that they needed and didn’t get because they didn’t camp out. For those who did tent, making arrangements to do so and making it a priority paid off as the majority got their first or second choice for a date.

First Come, First Serve

Reservations are accepted on a first-come, first-serve basis and, on the first day of sign-ups, the Chapel accepts in-person reservations first, hence the tradition of camping out: the couple who arrives at the Chapel first and camps out the longest gets to choose their date/time first and it goes in order of arrival. After in-person sign-ups, the Chapel accepts reservations by phone and email based on the order the messages are received and based on the remaining slots.

“We never give priority based on the status of the bride or groom, or their parents or grandparents, within the University. The whole process is very egalitarian,” Sara notes.

The first wedding in the Chapel was in April 1933 for Marion Noell Lyon, the grand niece of James Buchanan Duke. Now it hosts between 70 and 85 weddings annually: up to three on Saturdays and up to one on Sundays during the summer. (It no longer hosts weddings on Sundays during the academic year due to the addition of a new choral evensong service). “We have hosted many weddings for couples whose parents and even grandparents were married here,” Sara adds.

The number of campers in a given month varies. Obviously, there are more people during the more in-demand months, such as May and June. Even though summer isn’t necessarily a busy time for Southern weddings, this particular July was unique in that it was the first time in a year that the sign-up was back on due to renovations the Chapel was undergoing in 2015. This July, a total of 10 couples camped out, with two more couples arriving very early to sign up on the morning of July 1.

Emma & MattTenting at Duke ChapelEmma and Matt were the first couple to arrive at the Chapel with a tent in tow, almost a full week ahead of the sign-up date. For Emma, there was no settling for anything less than a Duke Chapel wedding and there was only one date in July they could get married, so being first in line was more than an advantage…it was a must!

The first bride- and groom-to-be get to set the “rules” for the camp-out. Emma’s list was civil and fair, with the main rule being that you had to camp out overnight or risk being moved to the back of the line.Camp out to get married at Duke ChapelEmma grew up in Columbus, OH with a dad and grandfather who were heavily involved in basketball; she grew up watching Duke games. With grandparents living in Raleigh, taking her on regular visits to Duke, her infatuation with all things Duke grew stronger. Ever since she was a little girl, she wanted to be married here. Emma and her fiancé, Matt, were set up by friends to be prom dates in high school; it seems serendipitous now that Matt plays football for Duke and will be playing out this 2015 season.

While they did have to wait a bit to get married while the Chapel was being renovated, all that waiting finally paid off. As first in line, they got dibs on their preferred July wedding date: July 9, 2016 at 6 pm. They already have their reception booked at Bay 7 and will be in the trusted hands of one of SB&G’s Preferred wedding planning companies, A Southern Soiree.

While Emma was somewhat reluctant at first about the idea of camping out because of the time commitment, she admits it turned out to be a really fun experience. Even with crazy summer storms passing through, complete with downpours and thunder, and snide remarks made by some passerby’s, bonding with other tenters and socializing with other Duke visitors made the experience less of a chore and more like a little party.

Every Couple has a Story

Chandler & TomDurham bride and groomSouthern Bride and Groom has a direct connection to Durham natives Chandler and Tom who went to high school with our co-publisher, Jenna! Chandler and Tom met in middle school and started dating after college.

Chandler always wanted to get married at Duke, though she admits, this was before finding out how complicated it would be. Nonetheless, she and Tom made the decision to camp out a few days prior to the sign-up when they saw other tents starting to pop up on the lawn.

Chandler is in a grad program at Duke until next May, so the timing of the Chapel renovations and her wedding date worked out perfectly. She’s even been able to work from her tent during the day before attending classes at night at which point her fiancé, Tom, takes over. “He has it better — he gets to hang out with the other tenters and drink beer at night. I just work all day,” she says jokingly.

Like Emma, Chandler was reluctant to camp out at first, but found the experience surprisingly pleasant. “The people are really nice. It’s also really funny to see the daily tours come through and the look of confusion on their faces. People start taking random pictures of the tents.”

Unlike some of the other campers, Chandler was waiting to get her ceremony date set before booking other wedding venues or vendors. It will be a relief to move forward with a clear date in mind.

Meghan & ZachGetting married at Duke ChapelMeghan and Zach met their freshman year at Duke. Meghan was a cheerleader and Zach a football player. As students, they remember occasionally seeing couples in tents outside of the Chapel. Since there is a huge camp-out culture at Duke, it never seemed that unusual to them. In fact, Meghan used to joke with Zach that it would be them one day…and she was right!

On Christmas Day, 2014, after dating for six years, Zach proposed in the Dominican Republic and the wedding planning began. “We met at Duke, and we fell in love at Duke; it seemed only fitting to start the next chapter of our lives at the Duke Chapel,” says Meghan.

The couple flew in all the way from Dallas, Texas, to stake out a camping spot and, luckily, even though they weren’t first in line, they ended up with their first choice! After their wedding at the Chapel, the couple will enjoy a reception at new downtown Durham venue, The Rickhouse.

Eliza & MattBride and Groom tent to get married at Duke ChapelMatt and Eliza met when he returned home from Duke after his freshman year and began a nursing research internship at UVA, where Eliza also worked that summer. After dating long-distance while attending different schools, the couple moved to Nashville together and Matt proposed to Eliza just one week prior to the camp-out! “We got engaged on Tuesday, took Wednesday to talk it over, drove from Nashville on Thursday, rented a tent from REI and secured our spot as tent #4,” says Matt, who goes on to say that even though he was feeling tired, the whole thing almost felt like a vacation.

As a third generation Duke graduate, getting married at the Chapel has extra special meaning for Matt and his family.

While camping-out and enduring several heavy downpours (resulting in one night sleeping in a half-inch of standing water) added an extra level of stress to the wedding planning process, Matt commends the school for rewarding people who exhibit the effort and commitment to getting married there, versus having to contend with people who have an inside connection.

Even though their engagement is still brand new, Matt and Eliza are off to a good start and have booked A Southern Soiree to assist with their wedding and reception at the Cotton Room in Durham.

Jenna & DrewCamping at DukeJenna and Drew, both from Colorado, are grad students at Duke. They met during their second week of classes at Duke while at a Graduate Christian Fellowship dinner in the Chapel basement, so it’s a place that holds extra special meaning for them both. “Along with taking our breath away with its stunning architecture, the Chapel was where our love story began and it will have extra significance being the place where our new lives together begin,” says Jenna.

Construction at the Chapel caused the couple to delay their plans by a few months, they are confident it will be worth the wait. And, even as sixth in line for the sign-up, they were able to snag their first choice for a wedding date – July 2, 2016, to coincide with a family reunion.

Jenna and Drew took turns sleeping in the tent each night since it was pretty small and they only had one sleeping bag. They also brought each other food and supplies as needed to make it more comfortable. “When the Duke Chapel wedding coordinator first told us about the camp-out, we felt pretty daunted about the idea of putting our lives on hold to ‘rough it’ it in a tent for a week, but fortunately, the rules established by the first campers, and the overall experience, was very relaxed. We really enjoyed meeting the other couples and sharing stories every night,” Jenna adds.

While the Jenna and Drew are still in the early stages of planning, they are almost finished with booking their reception at the acclaimed Washington Duke Inn & Golf Club. They are also considering Riley MacLean as a photographer after meeting him during the campout photoshoot!

Ashley & RikkiDuke Chapel weddingsAshley and Rikki are high school sweethearts who met at The North Carolina School of the Arts in Winston-Salem. Ashley attended for ballet and Rikki for music, and both discovered they were from Durham. Seven years later, Rikki proposed surrounded by a panorama of fireworks on Independence Day.

As Durham natives, Duke was always a part of their life, in fact, Rikki’s mom has worked at the University for over 20 years. He also enjoyed playing regular ensembles at the campus during high school. Ashley’s family, too, has an interesting connection—they have a hardwood flooring business and do the floors for Cameron Indoor Stadium.

The Chapel’s 2015 renovations pushed their anticipated wedding date back about a year, but it’s really the only place they imagined getting married. “I think Ashley and most girls in Durham dream of getting married in such a beautiful location. Deep down, I think I always pictured getting married here, too. I grew up several blocks from campus and it just feels like home,” says Rikki. “It also feels good knowing it’s such a prestigious place and that not just anyone can get married here – it makes it that much more special.”

Having grown up around Duke, the couple was familiar with campus campouts and weren’t surprised to learn this may be what was required to secure a date at the Chapel. Rikki ended up setting up their tent in the middle of a hailstorm.

Like Jenna and Drew, this couple will have their reception at The Washington Duke & Golf Club and feel confident in all the services provided there.Tenting at Duke Tenting at Duke University in Durham, NCWhile every marriage is sure to encounter scenarios that are a test of patience and commitment, these couples are already off to an impressive start. We wish them all the best and look forward to hearing all about their weddings at Duke Chapel next July!

Photos by Riley MacLean Photography

Inspirational Raleigh Wedding Industry Events

From awards galas to open houses, SB&G has been busy attending all kinds of inspirational Raleigh wedding industry events this June. A lot of hard work goes into planning and executing these events, so we wanted to share a glimpse of just how amazing the final product is. We hope you enjoy seeing some of our favorite June highlights; they may just get your ideas flowing you for your own wedding planning!

The 5th Annual Trinity Awards Gala & ISES-GT Board Installation
It was a sparkling and elegant evening at the ISES 2015 Trinity Awards Gala held at the magnificent Grand Marquise Ballroom in Garner, North Carolina. With 21 categories honoring every discipline of event planning, management and production, all members of ISES are welcome and encouraged to enter; the annual awards gala is a highly anticipated celebration for the nominees and winners.

The theme of the night, “All that Glitters,” was portrayed in everything from golden flatware to an ice sculpture in the lobby  to shimmering attire worn by ISES members and special guests. Photos below from B. Jarvah Imagery show the event space decked out with hundreds of red roses – an unforgettable display created by one of the Triangle’s most talented florists, Fresh Affairs. Paired with gold chairs and black linen, it was glitz and glamour at its finest!

Rocky Top Catering made sure the crowd was well fed with several tasty courses, and Island Sound and Video filled the space with music and entertainment throughout the evening.

Many vendors who are a part of the Southern Bride and Groom family walked away with prestigious awards and honors, such as Shutterbooth for Best Event Support Services; Island Sound & Video for Best Event Videography; Expressions of Love Florist and Fresh Affairs for Best Event Design Decor; Shawn Schindler Events for Best Social Event, and American Tobacco for Best Team Effort.  Congratulations to all!Event at the Grand Marquise Ballroom RaleighGold tablescapesIce SculptureSouthern Bride and Groom at ISESSouthern Bride and Groom at Trinity Awards GalaRed gold and black color paletteISES Trinity Awards at The Grand Marquise BallroomMembers of ISES at Awards GalaISES 2015 meeting and award showThe Grand Marquise Ballroom event spaceThe Grand Marquise Ballroom Raleigh

Rocky Top Open House
The next event we attended, Rocky Top Catering’s Open House event at 1705 Prime in Raleigh, was as pleasing to the eyes as it was to the appetite! It was a chance for Triangle brides-to-be to enjoy displays by local wedding vendors like Paperbuzz, Expressions of Love florist and Themeworks, all while sampling delicious bites like pan-seared crab cakes and an impressive dessert table. One of SB&G’s preferred photographers and friends at f8 Photo Studios captured the mouth-watering photographs below.

Rocky Top Catering at 1705 Prime RaleighRocky Top Catering open housePaperbuzz wedding stationeryRaleigh wedding venueWhite and green wedding colorsRocky Top Catering AppetizersSignature cocktail for bridesWhite and green tall centerpiecesRocky Top Catering event foodRaleigh wedding caterersMason Jar SaladDessert Table

Triangle NACE Meeting at the North Carolina Executive Mansion
NACE is the oldest and largest professional society that addresses all aspects of the catering industry. The Triangle chapter’s June meeting was one to remember – held at the North Carolina Executive Mansion in Raleigh.

The theme of the evening “Let’s Get Political” featured guest speaker Jeff Tippett with Targeted Persuasion. And, there was even a special appearance by NC Governor McCrory himself.

Joe Payne Photography, a member of the SB&G family, captured the charm and elegance of the mansion, along with all the details of the event, down to the cookies, cleverly decorated by Edible Art for both political parties. American Party Rentals linens and decor tastefully added to the ambience of the historic mansion.North Carolina Executive Mansion in RaleighNetworking at NACE meetingDemocrat and Republican CookiesNACE meeting in North CarolinaNorth Carolina Executive MansionGovernor McCrorys Mansion RaleighGovernor Pat McCroryRaleigh Governors Home

Charming Spring Wedding at The Sutherland

It’s Wedding Feature Wednesday at Southern Bride & Groom! Today we’re excited to share Gina and Zach’s charming spring wedding at The Sutherland.

Gina and Zach met at East Carolina University while studying hospitality management. After being paired in a group together for a class assignment, they started to realize their connection went beyond the classroom. However, they did not begin dating until nearly a year after graduation. All Zach asked for was one date, but Gina kept turning him down. After much banter, she finally obliged…and the rest is history!

Gina and Zach were engaged in July 2013 in the mountains of North Carolina. Zach had rented a cabin with pretty views. The couple went for a scenic hike, but ended up on the wrong path and their “romantic” hike took them on a horse trail, which was a lot smellier than the pedestrian trail! After hours of searching for a scenic overlook away from the horse path, Zach finally found a good location to pop the question and Gina, after displaying a sense of utter disbelief, of course, said “yes!” Twenty-One Films shares more of their story in the video at the bottom of the post.

Gina spends her days planning other people’s weddings, working as a wedding consultant for the highly-regarded Raleigh-based wedding planning company, A Southern Soiree. Creating wedding timelines and tasks comes second nature to Gina, so she was able to truly enjoy every moment she and Zach had together to pick out the details; their favorite part was the tastings!

Gina & Zach’s wedding played off many jewel tones that enhanced the natural beauty of their venue and the attire they selected for their day.

As a planner in the North Carolina wedding industry, Gina’s had the opportunity to work with many vendors throughout her experience, including those who are a part of the SB&G family! She loved being able to use these resources for her very own wedding.

See how the entire day came together perfectly in the images below by Christobal from Azul Photography, who, according to Gina, went above and beyond to capture the most special moments of Gina and Zach’s wedding day.The Sutherland wedding venueRaleigh bride at The SutherlandPink and green bridal bouquetMother of the Bride giftRaleigh bride with pink bouquetLace wedding gownDads first lookFather's first lookPirate cufflinksNavy blue groomsmen suitsGreen groomsmen tieLavender bridesmaid dressesBridal bouquet with pictures of grandparentsPretty seating chartRaleigh Groom at The SutherlandOutdoor wedding in North CarolinaBella Bridesmaids dressesRaleigh NC floristOutdoor wedding ceremony in NCNorth Carolina guestbookMac and cheese bar at weddingHanging flower decor at weddingWedding venue in Raleigh NCTwo tone layered wedding cakeRaleigh bride and groomThe Sutherland reception with dancingToast to the bride and groomRaleigh wedding venueConfetti send off at wedding


The Venues
“I wouldn’t have wanted to host my wedding anywhere else, but The Sutherland,” shares Gina. “It’s an absolutely beautiful property with everything you need in one location! We loved having both the wedding and reception in such a beautiful, secluded area. It felt like we were in a world of our own and it made the day so much more special.”

“I also loved hosting my bridal luncheon at The Carolina Inn and having this venue be a part of my big day. They always make every bride feel so special no matter what the reason for coming in is,” Gina adds.
Hanging flowers and chalkboard signCatering
“Everyone at Rocky Top Catering is amazing to work with,” says Gina. “I received so many compliments on the food from the wedding. Rocky Top knows how to help couples customize their menu into something that truly reflects their style and taste. We even had a bacon bar!”

Flowers and Dresses
The English Garden rocks!” Gina exclaims. “Cydney and her team come up with fresh, new ideas and truly make your event unique. Likewise, Tre Bella does amazing floral design, and dresses too! They made me feel beautiful with each gown I tried on until I found the PERFECT one! We got our bridesmaids dresses from Bella Bridesmaids, which is run by a wonderful group of ladies and has such a beautiful selection of colors and styles from which to choose.”Pink white and green bouquetMakeup and Hair
“Both Jennifers’ who run Makeup for Your Day are just wonderful to work with! They’ve built a great team of artists whose goal is to make you look and feel beautiful on one of the most important days of your life,” says Gina.

“Getting to work with such a fun company is exactly what’s needed on a very emotional and intense day,” shares Gina. “Twenty-One Films captured every moment of the day and allowed me see the parts of my wedding I didn’t get to see.”

Check out the adorable couple’s story below that Twenty-One Films created for Gina and Zach.

Gina + Zach, The Engagement Story from Twenty-One Films on Vimeo.

VENUE The Sutherland | CATERING Rocky Top Catering | WEDDING PLANNER A Southern Soiree | MINISTER Jeff Streyle | BRIDESMAIDS LUNCHEON The Carolina Inn | BRIDAL GOWN Tre Bella | BRIDESMAIDS Bella Bridesmaids | MOB Nordstrom Rack | GROOMSMEN GIFTS Custom alcohol and gift box | HAIR & MAKEUP Makeup for Your Day | PHOTOGRAPHY Azul Photography | VIDEOGRAPHER Twenty-One Films | FLORIST The English Garden | CAKE Sweet Traditions | INVITATIONS Minted | MUSIC Bunn DJ Company | PARTY RENTALS CE Rental | TRANSPORTATION Carolina Livery, White Horse Transportation